She Watched the Live Birth!
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She Watched the Live Birth!


smile you good morning everyone it is the next day it’s the 13th it’s the do day but we already hoping there is this is Aunt Lisa it’s Harker’s turn to hold the baby are you so excited [Music] he makes me now yeah he loves to you in the middle of the night at like 2:00 or 3:00 a.m. I was thinking myself I wish Park was here to sing him a lullaby because he was just crying and I couldn’t get him to stop crying but when you thing to him he stopped crying remember that yesterday so I was I wish I had a little recording of your voice for you and sing him a little song and he stopped crying when I when I said it’s me mm-hmm and you stop crying when Jacob fell down you can make a nice donkey did you blow up little boy would be full careful ha ha you big bubbles hmm you can be family Oh Mary Mary Mary Mary after what champion was born Rogerson yeah ready Parker this is from Duncan – you look you’ve got some soap and special gold soap that’ll turn you gold and an egg bath bomb Oh shower jelly smell that smell this yeah what do you see nothing Thank You Georgie he said you’re welcome oh my goodness look at those eyes do you want to give Duncan his present now what is the phone baby Huey when you think papa trouble guitar looking at him not your life um I think you said yes I think he does like them Klimek sound that’s so cool okay Jacobs turn Jacobs ready común example [Music] it might be well-pleased right in your face looking at you you see him looking at you you can get cute are you going to take care of him and teach him things [Music] think of you let me know when you’re ready to get your present don’t even matter now is an hour he’s so alert right now I love you don’t eat any given a nightmare you can’t go poop on his diaper it’s not exciting yeah it’s exciting because that means his body’s working doing what it’s supposed to do his hair smells like baby noises it’s very sweet revenues okay we can use okay swallowed it that is changing over to mommy because he probably means mommy no that’s very thoughtful of you Parker I think we’re going to let him be held a little bit longer but that was very thought a lot longer what it was very late at night last night when you left and I didn’t really get a chance to talk to you about the birth because Bailey was in the room while Duncan was being born she requested to be in there and I wanted to hear what that was like for you can you tell me a little bit amazing I loved hearing his first cry it was so soft it was very special wasn’t it can you tell us like the whole story tell us from beginning to end what happened well mommy had Duncan and and a little bit of the embryonic sac crystal on his head mm-hmm did you see that yeah the doctor didn’t come in time for mommy having our baby so the nurses had to deliver he had just arrived at the hospital so he didn’t come and run to the nurses had to deliver him were you at any time scared yes mommy was kind kind of making me feel scared because it was it seemed like he was hurting a lot was there anything that you chose not to see not really not really you looked at everything pretty much I saw this placenta how was that aim described that it was pretty cool it was like sort of like the am beyond ecstatic baby was n so it was attached to the umbilical cord and it was really cool were you happy that you were in there for the birth I was very happy one of the nurses was worried that you were going to be too scared or not liked it and want to leave but did you feel any of those feelings no no but I I did start crying because there was so happy there is this cool light in that room you want about the light the light was just it was attached to the ceiling I thought it was a ceiling and then all of a sudden that part of the ceilings you started coming down and then though a giant light started stretching out over mommy it was super cool do you remember the face you made when I start happening that is exactly the face that she made me she started saying what was that for well actually really did not ask a whole lot of questions because she wanted to I could tell you wanted to ask some questions right but she was very respectful of the fact that there was a birth happening and that there were professional nurses that needed to take care of mommy and daddy need to take care of mommy and mommy needs to take care of Duncan so Bailey was very quiet very the perfect viewer for the birth she was fantastic so you did a great job I’m very proud of you thank you thank you okay Jacob this is from baby Duncan what is it a knife it’s a pocket knife this is a my first pocketknife it doesn’t have it has a rounded end and it’s for whittling those are other types of nights that you can get but this is for learning how to use a pocketknife it is a real is a real tool so you have to learn how to use it properly okay but you’re a big brother to two little brothers now you’re ready for big responsibility now those are super serious those are for adults but we’re going to help you use them those are whittling pool they’re carving tickles Jacob has been wanting to learn to whittle for a long time and he’s been asking for a pocket knife for a very long time coming this is whittling wood so you’ll have something to get started with give him another table because again I think that smile warm out all right what did you get Duncan look who’s getting another turn with uncanny okay bailing this is from Duncan do a tag it is what sort of a present for ingesting that I comes down interesting but it is really is this your own kid kind of like your own diaper bag so anytime does it meet you you can grab but you’re bad and take care of a whole bunch of a food a little toy and a blanket there’s Wi-Fi watch the clock and that’s a special network around I can wear this Duncan can chew on it okay it’s truly suppose Q can read em aha your very own burp cloth hot this is very fun like you get to smell things scratch things feel things and plenty to do with things it’s really time your own swaddles to swaddle them up in I learned how to swaddle one partner with more it’s very very nice Thank You Duncan I can’t wait to take care of you really wanted to hold them a little longer so she’s got him again I’m doing so good here is he there is so good you doing such a good job I’m going to be opening his presents for him from Bailey so these are from Bailey’s to thinking pacifiers he’s asleep I’m sure you’d love them with one hand just to tape her gum paste yeah sermon Kelly’s like one ages zero to two Oh – at least – he’s asleep pretty good holding babies wailing I’m going to sleep last present just got toothpaste I wonder what this could be [Applause] it’s a banana brush yeah but he’s still asleep [Music] easier first hiccups outside of mommy I’m holding you it feels just like we need to do hiccups inside mommy and I feel you on the outside of mom and I bothering you you don’t mind them this is the first real chance today that I’ve gotten the whole little Duncan everybody else wanted to hold you know I get to hold you get some daddy time we should update you on some stuff first off I want to say that Jessica is my hero gave birth last night up all night with a baby that’s brand new and still I will cook like this but you can’t smell my breath because I have not brushed my teeth so I don’t get that much great the pearls make up for it though right guys what what is she doing all the pictures of her like after the pregnancy it looked like I gave birth like I was the one I was like and she was like I’m perfect and I just made this child deal with it she’s my hero she told me that this was a heart that will hard birth but you couldn’t tell by watching her give birth because she was just like very determined and just did it and took care of it and her body knew what to do and it was just amazing I was so amazed I wonder my dear how vile is like one of my more painful ones okay so it was painful but you couldn’t tell I can’t imagine what giving birth is like it seems very painful but you couldn’t tell that she was in like a whole bunch of pain and it was so magical hearing bailing behind me cuz Bailey sat behind me on the couch while Jessica was giving birth that birthing started to happen which we weren’t allowed to film because of the hospital policy so we couldn’t film that part of it but I hear behind me Bailey go we see the head and I had no idea she had a view of any of what was going on because my back was to her and she was watching the whole thing and it was like magical to her I don’t know I was just so proud I was proud of Duncan I was proud of Jessica as proud of Bailey and it was fantastic that was my birth experience how was it for you did you like getting born kind of rough we’re not so bad though right I’m taking every hiccup as yes yeah not so bad so everything just happened in the last 24 hours which is so exciting and I feel like what I’m going to be reflecting on in life on this birth is that ultimately everything happened kind of exactly as my heart would have desire in the time it’s all crazy and confusing and unknown so it’s kind of like a little little scary but my water broke in public which is like a little fantasy of mine up like I never thought would happen it’s kind of a funny thing to want but because I always wanted it so that was fun and I got to do it without an epidural without pitocin without any sort of inducing which I’m really grateful for I did end up getting pitocin after the baby was born which my nurse warned me that she was that she was planning to do and that seemed to actually be a great idea it worked really well that was because of my polyhydramnios which was so much fluid they had to shrink my uterus as fast as possible because there was a chance of me like bleeding out and having major blood issues and that seemed to go really well and not having issues with that so that’s really good and I was scared of it at first I thought it was really hurt and I was fine the doctor didn’t make it to the delivery and actually other nurses didn’t either I only had one nurse and even as the baby’s head was coming out she ran out and was like please can I get some other nurses everyone I heard in the hall go know everybody’s busy just like looks and ran back in he had the cord wrapped around his neck twice and she handled it like a total champ she just rocked it she was a great nurse and I’m really grateful for that and the doctor came in to deliver the placenta and he was 4c sweetie so very sad but he couldn’t have gotten there any faster what when I go when I start going I start going I get it done and she had checked me at 8:00 p.m. and I was 6 centimeters dilated and 80% of face and he was born at 8:50 to like around 8:30 and I think was 8:40 I was like huh I think you should really get back in there and look at things like I’m I think it’s time she did and she called my doctor at 8:43 and then he was born at 8:50 tale so my doctor had 9 minutes she’s impossible and he almost made it but did it and that’s kind of what happens and not only that but she looked at me and shoot she started lying there’s no and I thought she was going to say no change that I was still 6 centimeters and I was like ok no change oops I’m what a goof and she was like no there’s no cervix you’re ready to deliver he’s a hundred percent just like he’s ten centimeters been fully dilated like it is time I was like ok I thought I felt something so that was I thought that was really funny and overall it was great it was very painful because I think you were kind of stalling and trying to like he was coming out and I had to like not pleura Shand she was like okay just like wait that’s always hard it’s hard to like wait because it hurts and you’re like really sure doesn’t feel really good push right now just get about it was the best choice again because my body didn’t get any damage at all which I’m really grateful for – so the nurse like she really did an amazing job on a kind of fast crazy delivery and it was just perfect that’s my birth story so I feel like Christopher is always a sweetheart going on about how great I am a birthing but he deserves great mention I honestly I don’t know what I’d do without him the night of the baby time the after baby time I don’t know what I would do without him I glassed my we had two babies and they were so excited and I get eleven pm I even told the nurse I was like you know I really don’t even want to sleep at all tonight because I just want to be with the baby he’s the cutest sweetest little baby at I wanna sit here and stare at him and be with it I’m so happy and then like two hours was the most tired human and it was a really deep inhumanly just different tired and I’m sure it has to do with like the muscles that you use and strain and like don’t even realize you’re using when you’re going through birth and the chemicals that you’re like secreting and creating inside because it was just like my eyes it was it’s a tired you don’t feel any other time in your life I went to sleep big time and then Christopher he just took over like he did such a great job all night I mean I was nursing him throughout the night to obviously but first were totally took over and like rocked it and didn’t even for a second complaining or asked me like when I was like you just like took over so it was really amazing I was able to get some sleep after I would have fallen over like I don’t know what’s that I mean I would have just like I wouldn’t been able to without him okay I’m so strong for example I want to say that’s very sweet of you to say but also totally doesn’t compare with creating a human being inside of you and then pushing it out of you like okay I didn’t sleep a couple hours that you like how is this thing inside of you and then gave birth to it and it was a living real look at this look at that what’s inside of you hey baby what what and you totally safely brought him into the world not even not even like close to staying up a couple hours I was really impressed and I was super grateful and then also he was a big help during the delivery too like this is a guy who you say like can I please have massage he does it for a while like he’s always like up firm giving the Asajj but then like he was like okay mine hasn’t carry right now and I like that too I’m like well how do people do massages for a long time and this guy like did not stop the whole delivery was like helping my back and it was it was real it was a huge help like him massaging my back and just being like really ready and available it was really really really amazing so he just is great and she will do that I think you do know that you know he’s crazy to birth twos I’m mommy noticed that man the entire all yawning [Music] hi let’s talk about what we learned today we learned that if you want a baby to like you just sing on the phone we learned that the most impressive part of childbirth is the crazy cool light that comes down from the ceiling and finally we learned that Duncan really likes kisses from his big brother thanks for watching everybody we’ll see you next time [Music]

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